It can be confusing and potentially hurtful when a guy calls you ugly, even jokingly. Here's a breakdown of what it could mean and how to respond:
Underlying Insecurity/Low Self-Esteem: Sometimes, people, especially younger ones, resort to teasing or making fun of others to mask their own insecurities. The guy might be feeling inadequate and trying to boost his own ego by putting you down. This can be linked to the subject of "Low%20Self-Esteem"
Awkward Attempt at Flirting: Believe it or not, in some cases, this can be a misguided attempt at flirting. He might be trying to get your attention and doesn't know how to do it appropriately. His perception could be distorted, associating negative attention with attention nonetheless.
Lack of Social Awareness: Some people simply lack social skills and don't realize that their "joke" is hurtful or inappropriate. They might think they're being funny, but they're completely missing the mark on "Social%20Awareness".
Genuine Meanness/Bullying: In the worst-case scenario, he might genuinely be trying to hurt your feelings. This is a form of "Bullying" and should not be tolerated.
Testing Boundaries: He might be trying to see how you react to his comments. This could be a way of testing your boundaries and seeing what he can get away with. Understanding your "Boundaries" is very important.
How to Respond:
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